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Help~!

Gah. Just learned today if I withdraw by the end of the month (THIS SUNDAY!) I get my tuition fees completely waived. Like... I don't pay anything.

I don't know what to do.

I'm pretty sure I want to move back to Oregon with everybody... get a job, start college in September and major in Japanese.

I feel like I'm going to horribly disappoint my mom by leaving, and that I might be doing something "stupid." Nevermind that I think moving over here in the first place was stupid, and too hastily decided.

...why do all the big decisions have to be made in less than a week?

Suggestions and/or comfort would be really welcome, if there's anyone out there.

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crannyapple
Oct. 27th, 2004 08:35 am (UTC)
It sucks that you're left with such a big decision with little time to make it.

The way that I view big decisions is (and you don't have to follow this) that when you're considering about doing something, most likely it means that you want to do it, and should, no matter what people tell you.

From what I get (and not taking in account of how much I miss you) I put in a vote for you coming back over here, because it seems like you're really dying over there. I'm most definetly sure that your mom will understand sooner or later, so try not to let her temporary dissapointment change the way you really feel.

Anyway, I hope that helps a little. Keep us informed, okay? *hugs* Good luck!
afirek_nema
Oct. 27th, 2004 11:07 am (UTC)
yeah.. short response times on big questions suck. "soup or salad? Salad! Wait wait! Soup!!! ...But it was too late..."

well, on one hand you have to come back earlier than you expected, and on the other, you get to come home and have all of your fees waved. Im not sure if there is anything else to consider, but I do agree that your mom will eventually understand.
riansnider
Oct. 27th, 2004 03:37 pm (UTC)
I had a similar choice to make (whether to drop my christos-hard honors class or not... I didn't)... well, sorta similar... but at any rate it had to happen in only a week.... well, I see it as an amazing adventure being over there buuuut since your mom lives there and all I'm sure it's not as amazing as it would be for someone like me. haha So, if it's sucking loads come back and bask in the oregon sunshine.... of course, the suckiest part is that you can't decided AFTER the election, because if it's bush the sequel, I know I wouldn't want to be here. ;)
sahdesmith
Oct. 28th, 2004 08:37 pm (UTC)
Ok time for me to put in my two cents, lets see where to begin... Ummm how about your being miserable almost the entire time you've been over there. There's the whole missing friends bit. Lets not forget the almost constant hostility between you and your mom. I'll keep this list short by only putting one more reason to come back down. The emotional stress this is causing you. Oh yeah the disappointment of your mom, she'll get over it or else the crap she keeps trying to push me to believe in turely is a load of crud. Anyways from her terms the dissapointment is all her fault because she's the one feeling it. I personally believe that's a load of bull as I think she just uses this obscure way of looking at things as a way to control situations, but thats just me. I'd say one vote for coming back asap, so to speak.
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